Friday, June 6, 2014

The Least You Can Do is Say THANK YOU!

Today is the 70th Anniversary of the historic D-Day -  Allied Forces invasion of Europe.  The strategy, intensity and complexity of that planned attack contributed to the ending of WW2 in 1945.  The cost was many American soldiers' lives, but the success was far reaching. 
I'm privileged to have a close friend who was a POW in WW2.  I've thanked him many times for his willingness to sacrifice for our country.  With tears, he's always responded, "It was my honor."  He's in his early nineties and the moments we are afforded in relationship are limited.  Our time together is filled with his accounts of the conquests and failures of the war.  I cherish what we share around coffee, stories and God's Word.  To have him as a friend and representation of the "greatest generation" is an honor I will not soon forget. 
When I say THANK YOU to him, it is filled with much emotion about what I know and even what I don't.  But, I've learned that uttering those words is the least that I can say when we are together.  And, that expression of appreciation softens his heart and warms our relationship. 
Expressing thanks is huge in every arena of life.  When we take the time to say THANK YOU, even for the smallest acts of generosity, we open ourselves up to what life is all about - GIVING.  Ignoring the kindnesses of a cup of coffee, a lunch or a gift in the mail is ultimately assuming it was deserved.  The opposite of gratitude is entitlement.  And, that is an ugly way of living.  When we are only thankful for the larger things in life, we limit life in all of its fullness, because what we share together on this earth is about the small gestures here and there. 
So, pause today and thank your family member for making the breakfast, your friend for meeting you for lunch, your employer for the job opportunity, or a veteran for their sacrifice for our freedom.  And, if you are on the receiving in of that thanks, please..., please...say YOU'RE WELCOME!

Who can you thank today for what they've given, whether it be large or small?

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