The Power of the Spoken "Thank You"

It's the feelings solicited when that authentic appreciation is expressed...  But, really, it's not about who receives the gratitude as it is the one who gives it.  Actually, it does our heart well when we utter authentically what we were taught to say early on as a part of those "magic words."  What would happen if we chose to practice "thank you" in everyday language and conversations?  What if we looked for things to verbally express appreciation?  What if key and strategic relationships experienced our thankfulness every time they came in contact with us?  My conviction is that such assertions make the simple more profound, the mundane more significant and the casual more intentional.  The uttered regularity of gratitude molds an attractive, engaging attitude and perspective.  When we accept the responsibility of giving thanks, life is slowed to the level of enjoyment and sincerity.  But, this lifestyle of thanksgiving doesn't just happen because we know it's right or we desire it.  Gordon MacDonald wrote, in his book A Resilient Life, "Thankfulness is a learned transaction, and it comes with the realization that I neither deserve nor am entitled to blessings.  At best, I am a graced recipient of all I have and am."  So true!  We learn this lifestyle by practicing daily.  As a matter of fact, begin by stopping right now and consider making a list of even the common things done around you; then, express gratitude to the particular people responsible for making them happen.  And, watch the power that is released from the spoken "thank you."

Who can you thank today either by writing it or saying it face to face?