Patrick Morley said that there is a noble impulse to manhood inside every man. I believe that! The guys that I have met and have had the privilege of pastoring all have reflected a desire to be a good man, husband and father to their children. But men need community...a band of brothers that look out for them. The local church is meant to be where that accountability can be found. And, that place doesn't just happen because it's meant to. An environment must be created, cultivated and claimed as a safe place for dads with young families.
With that said, here are four critical points to consider when going after young dads:
(1) Reaching the young family man starts with what your church offers his kids.
Nothing speaks more quickly to the heart of a dad than what his kids enjoy. Energic, animated, safe and current ministry to children will keep them coming back. A secure environment for his children will yell positively at his protective side.
(2) Having a “man” day at your church is not a focus to reach young men.
Get real, church leader. This is not about scratching a proverbial itch. And, having a yearly focus on men without endeavoring to reach them on purpose throughout the year is like trying to swat a fly with a broom (it comes across too heavy too quickly without hitting the intended target).
(3) Décor and discipleship are golden when appealing to men. Evaluate the entire
look and feel of the church facility. Keep in mind these “v’s” for the worship experience: visual in presentation; vicious about time; vocal for strong themes. PowerPoint and props, starting and ending on time, and not being afraid to talk about tough subjects and calling for their commitment are the details of sustainable ministry to young men.
(4) The pastor is directly and indirectly the primary minister to men. Leadership is
the key. Ministry to men must be led from the top and promoted as the primary direction. And, even though all ministry cannot and must not be led directly by the lead pastor, their involvement is critical to its ability to thrive (and, in many cases to its survival).
David Murrow, from his book Why Men Hate Going to Church, said these strong words: “You cannot have a thriving church without a core of men who are true followers of Christ. If the men are dead, the church is dead.” Be challenged to read all you can about how to go after an effective young dad outreach. Go to a men’s leadership conference. Invest this year in making a course change and/or bettering your ministry to the fathers of your community. This ministry compass could become your church’s greatest asset.
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